TBT: Alex Reynolds Caned at Bars and Stripes

So, today’s post isn’t about a video that just came out, but it’s one that came out at a time when I wasn’t running this blog, and it’s a scene that I particularly love, so I decided to do a #throwbackthursday and talk about it! This scene was released last year, but it was filmed in 2013, I think. It’s a fully nude, restrained caning for Alex Reynolds (that is to say, me) at Bars and Stripes.

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Bars and Stripes is a site that has gone through a lot of changes recently: it was originally based in the UK and was created by Michael Stamp and famous spanking performer Leia Ann Woods. The site was a continuous story, following reoccurring characters through their lives in a women’s prison where corporal punishment (and lesbian encounters) were frequent happenings. Some plot lines were more complex than others, and the site was shot with a dark and foreboding style.

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Because of the censorship laws passed in the UK in 2014, however, the management of Bars and Stripes decided that they didn’t want to take the risk of running the site illegally and sold it overseas. It’s now produced by the same lovely people who bring us Spanked in Uniform and Real Life Spanking. It’s become a little bit different: primarily, the cast has changed significantly for obvious reasons and it has less of a cold and gloomy atmosphere. I’m not saying that it’s better or worse now: it’s just different. All of the content produced by the original team can still be seen on the site, and the new work is also very good. So, no matter which style you preferred, you can still be very satisfied by joining the site.

I did one shoot for Bars and Stripes, and I did it while it was under the original management. The scene we’re looking at today is the final scene in my mini-series there, in which Officer (Paul) Kennedy and Officer (Stephen) Lewis give me a final and severe caning before I was released from my short but action packed stay in The Prison. I was stripped fully nude and restrained over a trestle.

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The cane hurt a lot, and the use of the trestle was great for my headspace.

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I was left very striped and sorry before my release from prison in this double caning film that is sure to tick off a lot of boxes for many viewers, as it did for me while we were making it!

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Bars and Stripes, both old and new, is a great site to check out if you like cold and harsh punishments, nude punishments and a good mix of OTK spanking with more formal positions.

In case you didn’t know, this blog is written by Alex Reynolds. Oh hi! I also write a personal blog called Alex in Spankingland and I co-produce Northern Spanking and Kitchen Sink Spanking. I did my first spanking video shoot in 2011 for Assume the Position Studios and I’ve gone on to shoot for a ton of different websites. You can follow me on twitter: @spankingland and on tumblr. You can find information about getting a custom video with me here.

Thanks for reading Spanking Wishes! I generally try not to make this blog too much about me, since that’s sort of what Alex in Spankingland is for, but it’s fun to share a little bit of my experience here once in a while, too. 🙂

Interview: Cupcake SinClair

Something special today! It’s the first interview that Spanking Wishes has conducted. Today, we’re talking to spanking model, fetish and adult performer and pro-submissive Cupcake SinClair. Cupcake was voted first runner up for New Spankee of the Year for 2015 on Spanking Blogg. She has shot for several spanking sites, produces her own content and works at Sanctuary LAX.

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Let’s learn a little bit more about Cupcake!

Hi Cupcake! Thanks for talking to us today. First question: Is spanking something that you’re into in your personal life? What other kinks do you like off camera?

I love, love spanking so even off camera, it’s something I really like implementing in my personal play time! Even if the scene is going to get much rougher, spankings are always a pleasant warm up to get me into a submissive headspace. Other kinks I enjoy off camera are also pet play, age play, whips, male boot worship, and psychological manipulation (like gas lighting, condescension, degradation, etc).

Very cool! What was your first spanking shoot like?

My first spanking shoot was for Spanked Sweeties and it was really wonderful! I had been introduced to the site via co-workers at the dungeon I work at – the director was amazing and the other two girls I worked with, Ivy Sherwood and Lana Miller, were super cute and fun as well! One was Christmas themed where I broke “mom’s” family ornament and blamed it on my “sister” and it was by far my favorite of the scenarios we shot that day!

Sounds like a lot of fun! What spanking sites have you shot for so far?

So far I’ve shot for Spanked Sweeties, Girl Spanks Girl,  Northern Spanking and Lily Starr Spanking!

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Those are all great sites! Are there any sites, spanking or otherwise, that you’d really particularly like to shoot for one day?

Oh wow! I’d really love to shoot for Real Spanking Institute, Dreams of Spanking, Triple A Spanking, New Sensations, Kink.Com, Erotica X, Desperate Pleasures and so many more!

Producers, take note! Speaking of producing videos, do you enjoy filming your own content? What is your favorite and least favorite part?

I love filming my own content! (You can check out Cupcake’s video store here.) My favorite part is being able to express my creativity and include my own fetishes in hopes of connecting with others who are discovering or already into said fetishes. My least favorite part is being really excited about the scenario for a particular clip and then seeing it not sell well…

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What are some of your favorite spanking scenes that you’ve done so far?

My favorite spanking scene to date was By Order of the Court on Northern Spanking with Alex Reynolds and Paul Kennedy, where Paul Kennedy played an officer who harshly caned Alex, Harley Havik, Violet October and I nude. It was lots of fun and -blush a very hot scenario!

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That was a great scene. What’s your favorite implement to be spanked with?

My favorite implement to be spanked with has to be my dear vampire paddle! It’s a black round leather paddle with medium sized sharp points on one side (similar to a vampire glove but with slightly larger teeth), as well as metal paddles!

Ouch! That sounds serious! You really are a masochist! Any sadism in you, too? Are you ever the one doing the spanking? Or do you just like to receive?

I’m usually receiving! I love being submissive and it’s always a little disconcerting being the top! The only time I’ll really top for spankings is when I’m teaching 🙂

Cupcake much prefers to be the one being spanked

Cupcake much prefers to be the one being spanked

That’s fair! What are some of your favorite spanking fantasies?

My favorite spanking fantasies are usually “naughty schoolgirl being spanked by a male teacher” and “Naughty little girl being spanked by daddy”!

Those are awesome fantasies that translate so well onto film! What other kinks do you think combine well with spanking?

I feel like when done properly, most fetishes can be combined with spanking!

So true! Can you describe one of your favorite off camera spanking or impact play scenes you’ve done?

My favorite off camera impact play scene was when both of my partners played with me for my birthday! Both of them are skilled with whips so it was lovely because while one whipped me, the other would spank, cane or paddle me and they continually alternated! It was quite delightful…

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That sounds like so much fun. What’s the most important thing to make a scene work well for you?

The most important thing to make a scene work well for me is communication! As a submissive I love to please and I want to make sure my top and I both have fun, so being able to understand what they want to please them enhances the scene for me as well!

Biggest thanks to Cupcake for sharing a little about herself today! To keep up with this beauty, you can follow her on Twitter and Tumblr, get clips from her Clips4Sale store or visit her for an in person play session at Sanctuary Studios LAX. Check out this page for information on custom spanking videos featuring Cupcake. And be sure to go watch her get spanked on these great sites:

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Spanking Rosie Ann

I’ve had a busy couple of weeks, so I haven’t had as much of a chance to keep up with the recent activities in the wonderful world of spanking as I would have liked to. I did, however, get to see the most recent update on Northern Spanking, since I helped in its preparation.

The movie features a fairly new spanking model: Rosie Ann. Rosie was just eighteen years old when she started doing spanking videos (she may have had a birthday since then, I’m not sure, but either way, she’s still a teen) and she’s genuinely into spanking: always a good thing! And she’s super cute, which is also a good thing!

Her new scene on Northern Spanking includes a hard, OTK spanking followed by twelve hard strokes of the cane, in a scene with a delightfully 80’s vintage feeling:VIDNSI113801-025VIDNSI113801-010 VIDNSI113801-014VIDNSI113801-019 VIDNSI113802-004VIDNSI113802-003  VIDNSI113802-012VIDNSI113802-015

 

A bus station is a bad place for good girls to hang out! When eighteen year old Rosie Ann’s parents got a call from her best friend’s family letting them know that the girls were caught hanging out among the crowd of delinquents there, Rosie was definitely in trouble. Like most girls her age in the nineteen eighties, she was no stranger to getting her bottom smacked, but this time, she was in bigger trouble than that. This time, she was going to get the cane. 

Having mostly been a good girl, Rosie had never been punished this way before, and she was scared and nervous from the moment she saw the thick, rattan implement. But mostly good, she didn’t protest against the punishment she knew she deserved.

Her round, little bottom was soundly spanked until it glowed red through her white school knickers while she grimaced and whimpered. Then, she was ordered to kneel up on the bed, presenting herself for the harsher discipline she required for being such a wayward, naughty girl. 

What followed was a hard caning, with each stroke biting into her tender cheeks and making her lunge forward, trying to escape the pain that never seemed to stop growing. The strokes were hard, and they didn’t get any softer when she whimpered and cried out: she needed to learn a lesson. 

Once Rosie had been properly beaten, she collapsed on the bed, her red and swollen bottom sticking up. Rosie promised that she won’t be caught in the bus station again. Hopefully, she won’t need another visit from the cane! 

Being a UK based model, and due to the horrendous censorship going on in their country, Rosie unfortunately doesn’t have as many chances to do spanking shoots as she would have otherwise, but she’s still managed to find herself with a sore bottom quite a few times.

She’s done several scenes for Triple A Spanking, but this one is my favorite:

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Rosie is waiting for her detention punishment & has no idea what it will be…so she imagines two scenarios: The first is erotic & about as far from reality as possible when she gets turned on imagining that she gets a “good girl” hand spanking & a riding crop used on her intimate parts (well, it was Rosie’s weird fantasy punishment!). Then as she snaps out of that daydream, she fears that it is actually something far worse, & probably closer to what she is about to get… a hard, painful wooden paddling on her bare bottom. This she doesn’t like at all & as she comes back to her present predicament of waiting for her punishment… in walks her teacher with a heavy cane who promises Rosie that she will feel 12 hard strokes which you will see is done in an authentic & traditional no nonsense “matter of fact” way!

I quite like this scene because it includes the delightfully pervy content that many of us enjoy seeing from Triple A and a more traditional punishment in one film.

Rosie makes a very cute school girl, especially since for all we know she could still be in high school. Want to see more of that? Of course you do.

So, here she is in proper school dress again, this time, for Bars and Stripes:

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It’s rare to see a school girl update on this prison themed site: Rosie is dressed this way because she had just arrived at The Prison from a juvenile facility, having turned eighteen. This young, wayward girl is in for a lot of punishment, it seems!

And I don’t think that featuring this adorable spankee would be complete without a little bit of F/F spanking, so here she is on Northern Spanking again, this time being punished by Miss Jessica Wood.

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The first in a short series of films imagining the kind of young offenders institutions that did once exist in the UK, with horribly wicked staff taking any and every opportunity to inflict corporal punishment on the unfortunate but equally wicked female inmates. This one sees a frightened Rosy Ann experiencing her painful introduction to the regime at the hands of the rather glamorous Miss Jessica.

In addition to shooting as much spanking content as she can, Rosie has done quite a bit of content for ATK: Hairy, so if that’s your thing, she’s definitely worth checking out:

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I’m hoping we’ll see more from this fresh faced, young spankee soon! Super cute!

Spanking Dolly Leigh

I was probably a little more excited than I should have been when I saw the latest update on Spank Amber. Who is Amber spanking today? Dolly Leigh.

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As far as I can tell, this is Dolly’s first shoot with a spanking only website, so she might be new to you. Personally, I discovered her over twitter a couple of months ago and became a fan. With an adorable face and an often mischievous smile, she bridges the gap between cute and sexy perfectly, and that kind of girl is my personal favorite… especially when it comes to spanking!

Just based on what I’ve seen of her on twitter, Dolly has a fun personality, too. She’s apparently big into video games, and she has a clip on her clips store in which she masturbates to orgasm with a hitachi while reading allowed from a Kurt Vonnegut book, which is something that I can’t express enough approval for.

 

So, I was glad to see her getting her cute little bottom spanked by one of our favorite redheads, Amber Dawn. The update features bare bottom, OTK spanking, and later, Dolly gets ball-gagged by Amber. Both girls are stunning, and they make a lovely pair, don’t they?

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Although this was, again, as far as I can tell, Dolly’s first time shooting for a spanking site, she’s no stranger to punishment. She’s shot for the kink.com family of sites, including this super hot update from Whipped Ass with Lotus Lain and Mona Wales. It gets much naughtier than this, too!

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Lotus Lain has moved in with Dolly Leigh’s ex boyfriend. Previously, Dolly turned his man cave into domesticated heaven right before he broke up with her. Now Lotus is reaping all the benefits. Attorney, Mona Wales, mediates the argument and poses unique solutions to their problem. Forget the ex, make up and fuck! The ladies aren’t as willing and Mona has to use dominance to teach them a lesson. Spanking, pussy licking, ass licking, strap-on anal, dildo gag and more!

You can also see some seriously sexy stuff from Dolly on a few other kink.com sites, like Ultimate Surrender, Electrosluts, and Fucking Machines.

And, if you want to see more of her and you’re into bondage, you can check her out on Fetish Pros:

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Like many models, Dolly also does webcam: following her on twitter can let you know when she’s online.

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Dolly is just too cute. It’s too much for me.

 

And, of course, you can get sexy content directly from her clips store:

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I’m hopeful that we’ll be seeing Dolly Leigh getting spanked more in the future. I’m going to keep wishing for that, anyway!

 

Spotlight: Dreams of Spanking

It’s always been my intention to write a post about what a great site Dreams of Spanking is. It’s one of my favorites. This week, however, Pandora Blake announced distressing news about her site: she’s been contacted by ATVOD, the authority which enforces the UK’s new censorship laws. The site’s future is unclear. Her blog post on the subject ends with:

“We are living in interesting times. If you haven’t yet joined the site, do it now, while you still can – time is running out, and legal fees are expensive.”

I’m not going to spend too much time talking about what ATVOD is here. I’ve already done a lot of that on my personal blog. If you don’t know anything about the situation, you can learn more about it here and here.

What I am going to do instead, is give a brief review of Dreams of Spanking. I’ll eventually be doing full, site tour style reviews, but for now, I want to share what the site is like and what it offers. Like Pandora said, now is really the ideal time to join the site, especially if you’ve never done so before.

THE BASICS:

Joining Dreams of Spanking for a month costs ÂŁ20, which comes out to a little less than $30 US. It’s easy to sign up with a credit/debit card, but Pandora also offers alternative forms of payment in the off chance that you don’t have a credit card, such as direct bank transfer.

Dreams of Spanking is organized differently than many other sites. Anyone can signup for a free account. Once you’ve done that, you can then upgrade your account, the equivalent action to joining another site’s membership area. Until you upgrade, you can see a few previews for each scene. Once you do, both streaming and downloading are unlocked for all the videos.

WHAT’S OFFERED:

Dreams of Spanking is a fairly young site compared to some, but it has a strong catalog of content. At present, Dreams offers:

  • 97 M/F spanking scenes
  • 82 F/F spanking scenes
  • 44 F/M spanking scenes
  • 24 M/M spanking scenes
  • 23 Solo female scenes (strip teases, self spanking, POV et cetera)
  • 11 Solo male scenes (strip teases, self spanking, POV et cetera)

Admittedly, not everyone wants to watch scenes from every pairing. The “Keywords” function on the site makes it very easy to filter out the types of scenes that you’re looking for. In fact, based on the sites that I have experience using, Dreams of Spanking is the easiest one on which to find scenes that include a particular element that you enjoy in your videos.

You can use the “Keywords” function to sort the scenes by Implement,  Atmosphere (such as edgy, erotic, severe or playful), Performer (this includes both bottoms and Tops, which is something that I personally find very helpful), Genre (Domestic, Institutional, Dominance/submission, Historical, School, Medical et cetera), Details (Mouth Soaping, Corner Time, Nude Spankee, Thigh Spanking, White Cotton Knickers, just to name a few) and Orientation (M/F, F/F, M/M, F/M et cetera).

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(That’s just a sample. The whole list is too big to fit in one screenshot.)

There’s also a visual way of viewing all the scenes, in case you want to see what catches your eye. While the “Keywords” search function is best for looking for something specific, this “All Scenes” method of viewing the content allows you to browse with ease and see what catches your eye:

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Each scene is clickable, and brings you to that particular item.

Streaming is quick to load and the camera quality is very good.

Unlike most spanking sites, Dreams of Spanking has an active and largely positive comments section, where you can often get answers to questions about the scenes you’ve watched from either Pandora or the performers in the scenes. Once in a while it’s gotten unpleasant, but in general, the people who comment create a comfortable community for people to talk about their interests, which is something that I applaud.

PERFORMERS: 

Dreams of Spanking prides itself on diversity, and for good reason. The cast of Dreams of Spanking includes men, women and people outside of the gender binary appear as both Tops and bottoms, and has a great deal of size, racial and age diversity, too. Dreams also has a mixture of performers that are familiar faces in the spanking scene (like Caroline Grey, Amelia Jane Rutherford, Christy Cutie and Erica Scott) and those who we most spankos have gotten to know primarily through Dreams of Spanking (Will Savage, Zahra Stardust, Talia Lane, to name a few). It also features a few films by models who have retired now, such as Zille Defeu and Irelynn Logeen.

There’s certainly someone who will appeal to everyone in the mix.

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MIS EN SCENE:

Pandora is a self identified “locations junkie” and finds beautiful places to set her scenes whenever she can, which makes the content on Dreams of Spanking feel more immersive, and emphasizes the feeling of fantasy which comes along with the content. She captures moments that are sometimes missed out on when shooting in a smaller space (like a punished girl heading upstairs while rubbing her bottom).

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HISTORICAL SCENES:

Relatedly,  Dreams of Spanking has a wonderful focus on historical scenarios, using costumes and props to bring to life stories of the way Corporal Punishment was (or might have been) practiced in a different time. 43 of the scenes on Dreams of Spanking are labeled with this tag, so there’s a good assortment here, not just one or two.

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AGE PLAY:

I personally really enjoy age play scenes. When I first became aware of Dreams of Spanking, this wasn’t the kind of content that I associated with the site. Admittedly, there are “only” sixteen scenes tagged with “age play” but they’re all scenes that I really enjoyed. They explore different aspects of this dynamic, such as intentional, explicit age regression in a couple scene, darker fantasies that came directly from the models who performed in them (including one from me and one from Pandora) and sweet, innocent little girl/little boy type play.

 

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EROTIC SCENES: 

In quite a different department than the last that was just discussed, Dreams of Spanking includes a handful of scenes that incorporate explicit sex along with spanking. This is something which is often debated: some people complain that there isn’t enough of it in the spanking world, while others feel uncomfortable whenever it shows up.

Dreams strikes a good balance here, only showing this sort of content once in a while and making it visually beautiful when it does show up. Part of the site’s mission statement mentions that all sexual activity which happens on camera is genuine: Pandora never scripts this or requires it of a performer. The “dirtier” scenes are very hot to watch, and it’s made much hotter when you know that everyone’s reactions are truly real.

Some of these scenes include traditional intercourse, others oral sex, anal play or masturbation. Included among this selection is “Instructed,” the film for which Pandora recently received the “Best BDSM Film” prize at the Feminist Porn Awards for 2015.

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BDSM:

While the majority of the scenes on Dreams of Spanking focus on corporal punishment scenarios, there’s a great selection of scenes with very hot, BDSM themes, too.

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YOUR FAVORITE “EXTRAS”:

Because of the aforementioned keyword system, it’s easy to find videos that include your favorite disciplinary “extras,” like butt plugs, fully nude spankees, mouth soaping, corner time, hand punishment or spanking on the backs of the thighs. These are things that can be hard to find in videos, not because they aren’t done, but because it’s hard to track down the films that include the elements that you’re looking for. Dreams of Spanking makes this super easy.

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Really, I could go on all day about this site. There are whole other areas that I haven’t even touched on, like the very authentic school punishments for both boys and girls, or the scenes including jodhpurs, which have quickly become a big kink of mine, or how enjoyable it is to watch the behind the scenes sections and see what it was like to film the video you just watched. But I have to stop somewhere, and it comes down to this: it’s a great idea for you to join Dreams of Spanking and have access to all this magnificent content (while it’s available).